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Musings on Sexuality, Intimacy and Life

This Witch is Lit

This Witch is Lit

There is a flame inside a woman that burns like radiant sunshine.It is ancient. Wild. Holy.Many have feared this incandescent power.He has tried to possess it, control it, tame it…

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When We Fawn In The Bedroom

When We Fawn In The Bedroom

“I didn’t say no. But I didn’t say yes either.”I just lay there, silent.Letting him do what he wanted with my body.While I disappeared off to another place, crying, silently, into the pillow…

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Erotic Sovereignty

Erotic Sovereignty

For many of us, feeling powerful in our sexuality often hasn’t felt safe. We associate sexual expression with danger, shame or wanton objectification. We’ve learned that being too magnetic…

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